I like to think that I am a pretty masculine kind of guy.  I try to be a good role model to my boys, trying to convey toughness while at the same time exhibiting a tender loving side also.  I think masculinity on a whole has taken a real beating the last few years.  There is no denying that there are more effeminate men on the TV, in movies and in print these days than there have ever been.  I see this as a great thing in some...